J-Hope Dating Advice for ARMYs Goes Viral Again After RM Defends Women

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It is often said that K-pop fan community knows no limits in terms of age, gender, or nationality. However, it's clear that females often make up the majority of fandoms — and ARMY is no exception!

That's probably why the BTS members frequently pay special attention to speaking up for women on social issues, as well as showing concern and offering meaningful advice whenever they get the chance to communicate with fans.

Recently, RM's remarks during a live broadcast — in which he discussed marriage and the pressure it places on young people, especially women — have become a hot topic in both Korean and international online communities. Following RM's comments about marriage, J-Hope's dating advice for ARMY also resurfaced and sparked discussion once again.

The common thread between these statements in that both aim to encourage female fans to be cautious when making decisions related to love, and it is not something easy or to be rushed.


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Firstly, RM's candid advice was: "It seems like everyone is being chased by the idea of marriage — especially women. It feels like society and the media put pressure on them regarding children and various other issues, but I hop they can live in their own way. I don't think there's a right answer. In the end, if you can't endure being alone, I wonder if getting married will really make things better. Wouldn't you still want to be alone even after getting married? Choosing marriage as a way to escape loneliness seems a abit wrong."

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While Korean society often believes that women should have children, RM boldly offered a unconventional piece of advice. However, his words are completely reasonable, as marriage is not something easy or a decision to be made hastily. What matters more than following the path society imposes on you is doing what you truly want.

Meanwhile, when a fan asked J-Hope, "Oppa, what kind of men should I avoid dating?" And the BTS rapper didn't hesitate for a second and replied directly, "You should be cautious about all of them."



J-Hope said it with a smile, so many people thought it might be a humorous joke. However, since he is known to be a meticulous and thoughtful person, even if his words were delivered playfully, his advice was certainly not empty — it clearly came with practical wisdom. After all, no matter how good someone may seem to you, that may not be their whole self. Therefore, always being cautious until you're sure is something you must do, especially when it comes to romantic relationships.

And yes, you heard that right! The BTS superstars — exeplary men and representations of ideal masculinity — are giving serious warnings to women about all men. These moments clearly reflect the group's gentlemanly qualities, encourage them to do what they truly want, with respect and care, by offering sincere advice.


ARMYs comments:

1. BTS told us not to trust any man — and now I don't either!

2. I trust you guys. It's better to be single than to date or marry the wrong person.

3. If Namjoon and Hobi say to be careful, then I'm not taking any risks anymore.

4. Guys, I get what they meant — 'if it's not us, then don't.' Fine, I'll accept that.

5. If you learn about the fandom, you'll know most of us are women. And yet these global superstar idols with millions of female fans say things like 'live your own way,' don't let yourself to be rtrapped by society,' and 'be careful with men.' They truly respect women and care about their fans.

6. And then people ask why we love them? LOOK! They are the STANDARD.

7. BTS are something else. They're idols, but also like best friends, big brothers, even dads who protect women.

8. I seriously respect these men and feel so grateful to know them.

9. I love how they teach a positive mindset. No preaching, no clichรฉs — just genuine encouragement to love yourself.

10. They don't stop you from dating or getting married; they encourage it, but they just want us to think carefully before doing anything. How could anyone not love these men?

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